I know it sounds easy and obvious but it’s harder then you think.
I say super sweet things to my gf all the time, I want to make sure she knows she’s loved and cared about. I honestly enjoy telling her these things and making her feel good/loved. What I didn’t realize is that I am wanting the same. My gf doesn’t work like that and I know that. I also know that she loves me very much and really cares about me.
Last night when I said the sweet things, I was genuinely so happy to say them because I felt that way and wished those things I said upon her.
This morning when I saw no reply to what I said I was disappointed and wanted to be shown love in the same way. I realize that I didn’t want to be “shown love”, I wanted something back like I had said. She shows me love, all the time in so many ways . But I was disappointed because it wasn’t after I said something good. Not only did I expect an action, but timing as well.
I just have to love her the way I’m loving her and be content with that. When I get love I need to be grateful because she does love me and she is showing me that. I need to be genuinely grateful, being genuine when I say something. Before, during and after I say the words.
Another thing I’m going to be doing is being REALLY NICE. Whatever people do to me or how they treat me, I will continue to be nice. Other people shouldn’t suffer my bitterness because of some no name ignorant assholes.